I've been a part of this tribe for a long time now, having joined with the intention of giving up TV again (I've done it in the past) but i have yet to do it. Not only that -- I'm just going to say it now: I LOVE TV!! There. I've said it. I love "Huff" on HBO -- to me it's the best show on.The characters are so deeply flawed and complex. I love "Lost" and "Grey's Anatomy" and "The Sopranos." In all fairness, I also read a great deal and I'm currently unemployed with far too much free time on my hands, but nevertheless, as far as this tribe goes, I'm a fraud. I keep myself as a member because I find the discussions interesting and I hope to one day be back to a TV free existence. But for now, I watch, and I love. So let the stoning begin. :-)
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Re: I'm A Fraud
Tue, May 16, 2006 - 6:33 PMYou'll watch until you don't. :)
No stoning necessary... enjoy your life!
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Re: I'm A Fraud
Tue, May 16, 2006 - 7:13 PMyeah, no stones coming from here,
your honesty is appreciated
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Re: I'm A Fraud
Fri, May 19, 2006 - 6:16 AMsince you said alot about what you like... I'm sorry, Love about TV. Can we hear what you don't like about TV? ;)
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Love / Hate
Tue, May 23, 2006 - 1:06 PMI figure I have a love/hate relationship with television. It's an incredibly powerful medium; it has the ability to communicate information, emotion, and understanding. It can be entertaining, educational, and interesting. It can be an amazing storyteller, it can combine words and pictures and music and transcend time and space. Television is an astonishingly powerful tool.
Unfortunately, it also grabs my attention at times when I don't want it to. It is the ultimate diversion, jumping in to fill any empty space. If it is on in a room, I struggle mightily to resist it and often lose that battle; I find myself watching, listening, and responding even though i don't want to.
Worse, the reality is, modern commercial television programming tends to pander to a lowest common denominator mindset in order to suck in as many "eyeballs" as they can, since the ad revenue is tied directly to ratings. They sell sex, innuendo, titillation and violence in order to do so. Education is at best terciary, at worst abandoned altogether; the power of the medium is reduced to gossip and voyeurism and shock value.
Are there still good shows on? Sure, there are. And I'm not opposed to occasionally sitting down, watching one, and then switching it off. But I object strenuously to the ubiquitous "always on" presence of TV, the filler/background noise use of tv, the use of tv as an electronic babysitter, the wasted hours of insipid channel-surfing looking for god-knows-what as long as it jumps off the screen and makes me forget my life kind of a feeling -- you know, the one that leaves you wondering where the day went, and with a sick empty pasty feeling in the gut and the heart. THAT I can do without.
Finally, I personally find television to be so compelling that I fall into some of the described behaviors without really wanting to, and therefore I resent it and generally choose to be free of it in my environment. If I must have one, it should be covered or something when it isn't in use, so that it isn't staring balefully back, saying "go ahead, turn me on." It's too easy. I hate that about television as we know it in this time and country; I hate the homogenizing effect it has on culture, the "did you watch xyz last night" conversations it imposes on real life, the celebrity gossip it spawns, the McAction McNews it fosters upon the craft of journalism, on and on.
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Tue, May 23, 2006 - 2:03 PMExactly, now I have to listen on my radio to "Entertainment News". What is news about Nick and Jessica or what happened on Survivor last night, or what the gossip is about next week's Desperate Housewives. I don't need to watch TV, I can listen to the radio the next day and get the gist of all the shows!! -
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Re: Love / Hate
Tue, May 23, 2006 - 2:08 PMI have become proud of the fact that I have no clue what's on TV anymore. I'm sure that's some form of snobbery, but, oh well... -
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Re: Love / Hate
Tue, May 23, 2006 - 2:45 PMI hate TV but I like movies. I don't have a TV in my house which makes it alittle difficult to watch movies. Don't really like new block buster, hollywood type movies with typical western themes. Clearly there is a difference within the two.
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Re: I'm A Fraud
Mon, May 29, 2006 - 2:05 PMExcellent rundown of the pros and cons, David. I agree wholeheartedly. For me it is precisely because I love TV so much that I despise it so intensely. I don't just want to not have a TV, I secretly plot to rid the entire planet of TVs. Yes, I'm the one!
Really I do find the misuse of the incredible power TV presents to be what actually makes it a destructive influence in society. Every society it goes into it seems to corrupt. Recall the studies on violence done in Bhutan in response to which the government started looking into banning TV. I don't know how it all ended, but I hope they succeeded, or at least restricted its use in Bhutan to educational programming only. And by educational I don't mean teaching people how to get hired by Donald Trump or outlast 30 other peoople if stranded on an otherwise uninhabited island.
If I could have a TV and just watch the truly enriching programming and not watch at all if nothing of that sort was on, I would have one. But I don't have the discipline to do that, and in my society there is a lot of crap on all the time, especially on the free broadcast channels, so I have to do without the box entirely or succumb to it completely.
If you can walk the line without falling into the abyss, more power to you. I don't actually want to rid the world of all TVs. I do however want more people to become responsibly aware of how it is affecting them and make conscious choices about how it is most productive for them to relate to the device. I want full disclosure, honesty, and responsibility. Sounds like you are all about those same things. Stay true, TV or no TV.
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Re: I'm A Fraud
Mon, May 29, 2006 - 2:14 PMI'm going to Bhutan in November. I'll be really depressed if I find much TV there.
The biggest reason I hate TV is because I can't ignore it if it's on - it sucks me in, and so much of it (99+% I'd guess) is mindless drivel. I start wasting hours just because it's so easy to be lazy in front of a TV. I work with someone who truly thinks his giant HD TV is as good as being there. How sad. -
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Re: I'm A Fraud
Sat, August 26, 2006 - 12:25 PMI moved to a country with very little english language programing on the basic cable that was included with my place. I had tuned out all together, but now I watch Fawlty Towers if I remember that it's on. I switch on at random times, like after dusting the TV stand ,and get a little taste of the local pop culture.
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